- Natalie Collins
- Jul 23
- 4 min read
Starting school is a big change for young children and their caregivers. It can bring up a mix of excitement, nerves, and uncertainty. Taking time before the first week to prepare your child helps make the transition smoother for everyone. This post shares practical steps to get your little learner ready for their first day of school with confidence and ease.

Meet the Teacher and Explore the Classroom
Many preschools offer a meet-and-greet before school starts. This is a great chance for your child to visit the classroom, see where they will spend their days, and meet their teacher. Walking through the space together helps your child know what to expect and feel more comfortable.
Ask the school if they have a scheduled open house or visit day.
If possible, visit the classroom more than once to build familiarity.
Point out important areas like the cubbies, play corner, and bathroom.
This early exposure reduces anxiety by turning the unknown into something familiar.
Plan Playdates with Future Classmates
Getting to know other children in the class before school begins can ease social worries. Ask the teacher or school for a class list and arrange playdates with a few kids. These informal meetings help your child build friendships and feel part of the group.
Keep playdates short and fun to avoid overwhelming your child.
Choose familiar settings like your home, the school playground, or a local park.
Encourage sharing and cooperative play to build social skills.
Having friends waiting on the first day can make school feel like a welcoming place.
Practice the Morning Routine with a Visual Schedule
Mornings can be hectic, especially during the first week of school. Starting the routine early helps your child adjust to waking up, getting dressed, eating breakfast, and packing their bag.
Create a simple visual schedule with pictures showing each step:

Go through the schedule together each morning the week before school starts. This builds independence and reduces stress for both of you. As a way to get your child excited, go through the morning routine the day before the first day and instead of going to school, go get a "back-to-school" treat like a donut or breakfast out with the family!
Use Role Play with a Favorite Stuffed Animal
Children often find it easier to express feelings through play. Use your child’s favorite stuffed animal to act out school scenarios. Pretend the toy is going to school, meeting the teacher, or playing with friends.
Talk about feelings the stuffy might have, like excitement or nervousness.
Example: Ollie feels nervous and excited about going to his new school. It is normal to feel this way when starting something new. Ollie is nervous to be away from his mommy and daddy all day long, but he is excited to learn and make new friends!
Show how the stuffy handles challenges, like saying goodbye to parents.
Today at school, Ollie needed to go to the bathroom, but he didn't know what to do! What do you think he could do if he has to go to the bathroom during school?
One of Ollie's classmates pushed him on the playground today, and he fell; he was sad. Ollie used a strong voice to tell his classmate, "Stop! It is not nice to push people," and then he moved away from the classmate to play with someone else. What could Ollie do if this happens again?
Encourage your child to share their own feelings through their stuffy.
Use more than one stuffed animal to have your child join in the role play. Ask your child's stuffy about how they are feeling.
This playful approach helps your child process emotions and feel supported.

Read Books About Starting School
Books are a wonderful way to prepare your child for preschool or kindergarten. Stories about other children starting school help normalize the experience and introduce school routines and friendships.
Here are some recommended titles:
The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
Llama Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney
First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg
Miss Bindergarten Gets Ready for Kindergarten by Joseph Slate
Reading together opens conversations about what to expect and how your child feels.
Do Fun Crafts Related to School
Craft activities can make the idea of school exciting and tangible. Try simple projects like:
Pocket Hearts: Cut out two matching small felt hearts and let your child stuff them with a bit of cotton and decorate them with fabric glue. They can keep this soft token in their pocket to "squeeze" whenever they miss you
Bravery Bracelets: String pony beads or tie colorful yarn with your child to make a special bracelet. Tell them the bracelet holds all your hugs and will stay with them until pickup

Final Thoughts
Preparing your little learner for the first day of school takes time and patience. Meeting the teacher, planning playdates, practicing routines, role playing, reading books, and doing crafts all help your child feel ready and excited. These steps reduce anxiety and build confidence, making the start of school a positive experience.
Take these moments to connect with your child and support their feelings. The first day of school is just the beginning of a wonderful journey in learning and growth. Your preparation today sets the stage for success tomorrow.












